Sunday, May 18, 2008

Without the Trinity we'd be Egotists


It is Trinity Sunday, the solemnity that speaks to us about how God revealed himself to us. He told us he is Father, Son and Holy Spirit; one God in three persons. We would never have figured this out had he not told us this. Augustine meditated on it for hours and he couldn’t figure it out. Pope Benedict XVI knows Augustine pretty well, and did his doctorate on him. He loves Augustine and quotes from him often. And not only quotes, even symbols connected with the great doctor appear in the Pope's entourage, like the symbol of the sea-shell. This might be a bit of a stretch, but think back to April 24, 2005, the day he was installed as Pope in St. Peter’s Square. You might have noticed that his chasuble featured sea-shell designs. A few weeks later we saw that his new papal shield has prominently featured a sea-shell as well. Now here’s the stretch: This sea-shell apparently comes from a story in the life of St. Augustine (+430). You’ve probably heard the story. He’s a bishop by now and he was trying to come to grips with the Trinity for what became his multi-volume work De Trinitate. As he was walking along the beach, trying to take in God's infinity through the infinite horizon of the sea, he saw a young girl going back and forth into the sea, filling a scallop shell with water that she proceeded to pour into a hole she had dug in the sand. "What are you doing," Augustine tenderly asked. "I'm trying to empty the sea into his hole," the child replied. "How do you think that with a little shell," Augustine retorted, "you can possibly empty this immense ocean into a tiny hole?" The little girl countered, "And how do you, with your small head, think you can comprehend the immensity of God?" As soon as the girl said this, she disappeared, convincing Augustine that she had been an angel. St. Augustine, as smart as he was, and our new Holy Father, as great a theologian as he is, both recognize that before the mystery of the Blessed Trinity, one can never understand everything

So we can’t fit the vast mystery of the Blessed Trinity into our heads. Understanding it perfectly is way beyond the capacity of our little nuggins.
Yet once he tells us, we can sense intuitively that it could be no other way. Yes we are monotheists, but if God were not a Trinity, we would not be able to say that God is Love. If he were all alone, his love of himself would be an exarcerbated form of narcissism and egoism. It wouldn’t be real love. God is love in himself, before time, because there is eternally in him a Son, the Word, whom he loves from an infinite love which is the Holy Spirit. Raniero Cantalamessa said it beautifully:


In every love there are always three realities or subjects: one who loves, one who is loved and the love that unites them. Where God is understood as absolute power, there is no need for there to be more than one person, for power can be exercised quite well by one person; but if God is understood as absolute love, then it cannot be this way.


Which points to the whole question of relations in our life. Without relations there is no love.

The divine persons are defined in theology as “subsistent relations.” This means that the divine persons do not “have” relations, but rather “are” relations. We human beings have relations -- of son to father, of wife to husband, etc. -- but we are not constituted by those relations; we also exist outside and without them. It is not this way with the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. We know that happiness and unhappiness on earth depend in large part upon the quality of our relationships. The Trinity reveals the secret to good relationships. Love, in its different forms, is what makes relationships beautiful, free and gratifying. Here we see how important it is that God be seen primarily as love and not as power: love gives, power dominates.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Hi Fr. Eric. Beautiful post. Indeed Fr. Cantalamessa said it very well . The twelfth-century mystic Richard of St. Victor said did the same, arguing that if God is not a Trinity then God is not love, for you need more than one person for unselfish love. If God were only one person, he could only be selfish love. At best, he could be a lover of human persons, but not Love itself. And then he would be dependent on those human persons – God would need us, would be incomplete without us, without someone to love. Without us he could not be unselfish love. Then his creating us would not be wholly unselfish, but selfish, from his own need. Only the Trinity allows God to be unselfish love in his own essential, independent being. The Father loves the Son, not himself; the Son loves the Father, not himself; the Spirit is the love between the Father and the Son, a love so real that it is a third Person.

The implication of this understanding of the Trinity of course, means that relationship is the fundamental category of reality – everything depends for its existence on this self-giving love relationship that God is. And the kind of love Christ taught and is was agape. Unlike feelings which come to us, agape comes from us, actively by our free choice, from the center of our soul. God is agape, and agape is not feeling. God is love itself. God cannot fall in love for the same reason water cannot get wet: it is wet. Love itself cannot receive love as passivity; only spread it as an activity. But the mind-boggling mystery of the intrinsic paradox of agape is that somehow in agape, you give yourself away. You put yourself in your own hands and hand it over to another. And when you do this, you find yourself in losing yourself. You begin to be when you give yourself away. You find that a new and more real self has somehow been given to you.

We all are invited to participate in this perichoretic dance by embodying more closely the relationships we were created to enjoy with God, other humans and the rest of creation. Because we are made in the image of the Trinity, love and family and community and friendship are not peripheral but central, not accidental but essential to us, at the very core of human existence. We are invited by the Father, enabled to respond to the invitation by the Spirit, and we enter at the point of Jesus Christ, whose life, death and resurrection makes life as children of God possible for human beings.